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Learn to live humbly

 　　Lu Xun once said: "A true strong person does not die a glorious death because of something, but lives humbly because of something."

　　These words are poignant and deeply admirable.

　　Guiguzi said: "Those who speak in secret rely on humility."

　　What does this mean?

　　In life, one should speak modestly, learn to bow one's head, and be humble and cautious.

　　Life isn't about grand gestures; simplicity is true happiness.

　　Real life isn't about being cool or flashy.

　　A cool life only exists in the writings of screenwriters, the lens of directors, and the scenes in movies and TV dramas—it shouldn't be taken seriously.

　　Many people think that Guiguzi teaches people to scheme all the time, which is not good.

　　Guiguzi teaches people to see through human nature and how to use this principle to one's own advantage.

　　Whether you know it or not, see it or not, use it or not, human nature is always there.

　　Regarding scheming, Guiguzi teaches: Scheme against outsiders, but never scheme against your own people.

　　Guiguzi is a good book that helps you see the true nature of people and opens your way to speaking and dealing with the world.

　　To die a glorious death or to live a humble life—the choice is yours.

　　True strength lies in overcoming weakness; to bend and stretch—that is the mark of a true man!

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